Sex Geography: Where That G-Spot At? July 30, 2018 – Posted in: News, Sex Advice
Men can answer thousands of questions, but ask them where the G spot is and that’s the ultimate endgame right there. But since some women are unable to tell where their G-spot is, either, maybe we shouldn’t badmouth men, even though for most of them, this is something akin to Atlantis or Eldorado.
So, where is it? Theoretically, you should be able to find it at halfway the distance between the opening of the vagina and the cervix. Easier said than done, right? We’re pretty sure the “needle in the haystack” saying came from a guy who couldn’t, for the life of him, find that spot.
If you can’t seem to find your woman’s G-spot, you’re not completely hopeless, because there are a couple of things you can do.
How to Find the G-Spot
Do the Missionary
But tweak the position a little by putting a pillow under her butt. This will place her pelvis at an angle that makes it easier for you to hit that spot. Let her do the job at first, so she can find it, then you’ll be able to do it on your own, without any help. You’ll know when you’ve reached it because she’ll probably start screaming like there’s no tomorrow. If she does, you did a great job.
Classic doggy style
In the same fashion as the missionary, this position puts the cervix at the optimal angle, too. The good thing about this is that she can rotate her butt as to hit the spot should he be unable to. Since doggy style often ends up being some other position, the two of you can experiment all night long. The most difficult part is assessing how deep you have to go to finally reach that spot. It’s less likely you’ll manage in your first try, but kudos if you do.
Use your finger
It’s recommended for you to find the G-spot with your finger first. As long as you find it by doing this, you’ll definitely find it while having sex, too. Once you’ve mapped it, stimulate it by massaging it gently. It’ll give you a hint on how to stimulate it properly so your girl will get some orgasms that’ll knock her socks off. Provided she has them on in the first place. Sex with socks on is analogous to laughing when at The Wailing Wall. Please for the love of God, cut and file your nails before going exploring inside her.
You should know that when you stimulate your woman’s G-spot, something is bound to happen. Ejaculation, to be more precise. Most guys are taken aback by this, but you really shouldn’t. It’s 100% normal for her to lose control of her body. It only means that she thinks of you as being a keeper. The myriad articles make the G-spot look a lot more mysterious and unattainable than it really is. All you have to do is have her be comfortable enough with you probing her body. If that’s what she wants, sooner or later she’ll ask you to do it so best be prepared.