How To: be Submissive (in BDSM)

Being a submissive is still shrouded in mystery. Even when Madonna released her 1990 single “Hanky Panky”, in which she crooned that there was nothing like a “good spanky”, it was a calculated controversy meant to shock most people. Adult spanking? Goodness me! Fast forward to 2019, and BSDM is actually part of the popular culture landscape, featured in movies, videos, television shows and Facebook ads. Now that people can be more open about their…

Gender Politics, Biology and Sexuality

This is a massive subject and a blog post can only scratch the surface on this complex socio-sexual dynamic. We are in the grip of a fourth wave of feminism, which began in about 2012. Many early feminists are at war with current feminists, and in fact feminism itself for many people has become the F-word. Over the past few decades, many people feel, that masculinity has been diluted, and men don’t know how to…