Anal Play for Men December 11, 2017 – Posted in: Industry Telegram
When it comes to erogenous zones, there is no denying that men’s can differ considerably from those of women. Women, for example, tend to have more of these erogenous zones spread out all over their bodies. Men, on the other hand, are believed to be less sensitive in general. This isn’t necessarily true, but the “location” of these sexy soft spots can be rather elusive.
This could be something to do with the fact that when it comes to male sexuality, the penis reigns supreme. In spite of this, there are many other possibilities as well. Nipples are an obvious example when speaking about sensitive parts but don’t forget another place: the anus.
What Good Is the Anus?
The anus has a lot of nerve endings and is, therefore, a very sensitive part of the body. This is actually why a lot of men enjoy “rimming” or analingus: the act of licking the anus in order to stimulate someone. This part is sensitive to women as well, of course. A lot of men do tend to shy away from anything to do with the anus for fear of judgment. This is a huge pity since any kind of anal play can be a lot of fun!
It is, therefore, a good idea to understand a little bit more about anal play and just what it can bring to a man’s sex life. One of the best things about it is that you don’t always have to have a partner there! If you are a man and you would like to experiment, you can try it out on your own.
The Tools of Anal Experimentation
Obviously, you will not be able to lick your own anus (unless you happen to be extremely flexible). However, there are other ways to enjoy yourself down there in order to get off. Fingers are an obvious example and should probably be tried first. You can lie down on your back and get to work in order to see what it’s like. You can choose to masturbate with your penis or not: it is entirely up to you. For a more pleasant experience, we would, of course, recommend that you use a bit of lube.
Using other objects (such as a range of anal sex toys that you can find almost everywhere) is also a good idea. This is especially useful if you want to go bigger. For example, there are many different types of dildos that you can have a try of. Do not forget vibrators, either. These tend to give off a very specific vibration which can be quite pleasant and can even lead you to orgasm.
One thing to remember about anal play: go as big as you need! If it takes some time to get used to a particular size, make sure to start with something smaller. You also don’t have to speak to your partner about it straight away. It is up to you to decide when you are ready to start getting funky down there.