Sex Parties: Your First Time February 8, 2018 – Posted in: Adult Industry News, News – Tags: sex parties, sex party
There’s always a first for everything. The same can be said for those who go to sex parties: while they may be exciting, anyone can be nervous the first time they show up on the doorstep. It can indeed be a very daunting experience overall. As a result, it is a good idea to have a clue about how you can survive your first experience and get the most out of it!
Below is a list of tips which can be useful to follow. You will notice that a lot of them aren’t very different from regular etiquette.
The Rules – Be Aware of Them
Contrary to popular belief, sex parties are not a free-for-all. In fact, there are often a number of rules that will be set down by the host. You’ll probably be told what the rules are, so make sure to stick to them! Most rules at these parties all revolve around safety and consent: for example, if you feel like playing with someone but they refuse, simply accept it and move on. You do not own or have the right to anyone else’s body: it is theirs to give and not yours to take.
Bring a Friend
One of the best things you can do when going to a sex party for the first time is to have a bit of support with you. Of course, you’ll probably have to be a little careful about which friend you bring with you and how you go about asking. However, having someone else there for support can work wonders. In addition, if you have a friend who has done this before then it can help to have someone there to guide you through the steps. Obviously refer to The Rules and in doubt ask the host if it is acceptable to bring guests.
Talk to People
Even though the main event here is sex, it is still a good idea to talk to people. You are still, of course, socializing so make sure to be friendly. It is also not a bad thing to tell people that you’re shy and that this is your first time – a lot of people will have an understanding and be more than willing to help you along with anything you’re feeling uncomfortable with.
Relax and Enjoy Yourself
Having a kind of “sexy” atmosphere can end up leaving people a little bit stiff. So, there’s nothing wrong with cracking the odd joke or two and having a bit of a laugh. After all, it is still a party and you are still basically a bunch of people socializing. Of course, make sure that your jokes are in good taste as well. And don’t make fun of other people: after all, you don’t want to feel self-conscious and the same can be said for anyone else who is attending the event. Above all, make sure that you are always polite and pleasant!