The Male G-Spot – Anal Stimulation Tips and Tricks August 22, 2016 – Posted in: LGBTQ
Having anal sex and heterosexual men aren’t normally associated together without a female in the equation. Society and popular culture suggests a false representation that only gay men enjoy anal pleasure so of course straight men all over the world usually associates enjoying anal penetration via the male G-spot as emasculating or being gay.
That’s Not True.
Just because you enjoy getting pecked in your bum doesn’t mean you’re gay or anything. It just means you’ve discovered a different way to pleasure yourself; it just broadens your horizons for sexual stimulation.
For a lot of straight men, the idea of exploring their own backside seems taboo. They’d rather perform it on a woman rather than be on the receiving end. When in actual fact, the male G-spot can be found through anal stimulation which will then lead to one of the most intense male orgasms you can ever imagine.
Gay men have been in on this juicy secret and thanks to those straight men who’ve glorified anal sex with their female partners, a lot of women have also found out they can achieve orgasm through anal sex. So don’t you think it’s time for straight men to get in on the anal action as well?
Before you take the plunge, let’s talk about facts.
The Male G-Spot
Finding the male G-spot isn’t as difficult as finding the female G-spot. But just like finding treasure, you must be patient.
Think of your anus as a treasure trove of tiny pleasures. It’s actually filled with countless sensitive nerves that will boost your pleasure sensations. Why, you ask? The male G-spot, also known as the P-spot or the prostate gland, is located inside your anus and it’s the size of a walnut. Prostate massage or anal massage can be relaxing and stimulating because the prostate when applied pressure releases fluids and encourage blood flow to the whole pelvis.
Prostate/anal massage can actually enhance your erection due to the increase in blood flow to the penis. When the G-spot is stimulated, the orgasms will be much more intense and mind-blowing so if you are going to try it out, you’ll need to be relaxed and open to unimaginable pleasures.
Why You Should Try Anal Stimulation
We’re not suggesting that every guy needs to give this a try. We’re only suggesting that if you’re open to new pleasures, you should give it a try at least once just to see how it feels. You may like it, you may not. It’s all up to you. But if you’re looking for reasons to do it or if you want your boyfriend to give it a go, here are a few reasons we have gathered for you.
Reason 1: Why shouldn’t you? It’s healthy to explore your sexuality because it can lead to new possibilities. You’ll be introduced to a whole new world of pleasures that you didn’t know existed. And if you enjoy it, it does not necessarily mean that you’re gay. Society still has a false implication that men who enjoy getting probed in the ass are gay, which is entirely untrue. You can enjoy anal stimulation and still love vaginas. Whether you do try it during “me time” or with a female partner, and whether you use your fingers or a sex toy, you can try out new things; the possibilities are endless.
Reason 2: Mind-blowing orgasms. We’ve already established this and it still rings true. You think orgasming is one of the best things you’ve ever experienced. You should try orgasming while your prostate is stimulated because it’s a whole other ballgame.
Reason 3: It’s actually good for your health and wellbeing. Research by a group of scientists at Harvard Medical School and Brigham and Women Hospital has shown that men who ejaculate at least once a day have lower risk of developing prostate cancer. And if you’re an active stimulator of your own prostate or just pushing your finger inside your anus once every few days, you’re more likely to find any abnormalities before anything drastic happens to your prostate. So stimulate that prostate and ejaculate everyday! You may be saving your own life in the long run.
Reason 4: Your female partner might find it really erotic. Sure, she might already be used to being on the receiving end of anal sex but give her the chance at a role reversal and she might actually LOVE pegging you. There are strap-ons in the sex toy market that are actually designed for pegging; one end goes inside her and holds up the other end of the strap-on so she can use that end to do as she sees fit. Pegging can be extremely erotic and pleasurable for both involved.
Reason 5: You’ll be a better lover because of it. You’re always used to penetrating your partner that you’ll never know what it’s like to be penetrated yourself. So once you try anal stimulation, you’ll have an idea of what it’s like to be on the receiving end of penetration. Try fingering for example, once you try it on yourself, you’ll find out that long nails are horrible and that intense thrusting doesn’t always work. And if you’re using a toy, you’ll realise that lubricants are one of your best friends. But as always, be prepared and don’t rush it. All good things come to those who wait.
How to Get the Most of Anal Play for Men
First you need to make yourself comfortable; this is key. You can take a hot shower before you begin as well, this will help you relax even more. If you’re a beginner, using your finger might be the best way to get acquainted with anal stimulation but you can make things more interesting with toys in the future. Keep some lubricant or gel for anal play nearby because it will definitely help you enjoy it more.
There are a few ways you can begin: you can lie on your back with your legs and your bum slightly elevated or you can lie on your side with your top leg forward. Whichever position you feel more relaxed will be the best position for you. Lube up your finger and start by gently massaging your anus until it relaxes and lets your finger inside without effort.
Techniques in stimulation can vary from one person to another because it all depends on personal preference. Your body will react to every single stroke and thrust of your finger so be prepared and take it slow; listen to your own body. As you explore inside your anal cavity toward your prostate, one of your body reactions will cause a tightening around your finger. When that happens, stop moving your finger inward until you relax again. Once your body relaxes again, slowly continue forward while gently stroking in and out, use circular movements if preferred.
As this is your first venture of your nether regions, don’t be discouraged if it feels weird because the key to your first anal stimulation is giving your body to react and respond so take your time and relax. Once you find the best technique for you, whether it’s moving in and out, intense pressure or circular movements, you can start introducing toys and/or let your partner do it for you.
Explore Anal Stimulation
Now that you’re well acquainted with anal play, you can try exploring different positions and adding extra pleasures. Let your partner give you a blowjob as she plays with your prostate while you lean on the back of a sofa. Or let your partner give you a rim job and see how well you enjoy it and vice versa. Better yet, probe your partner’s anus with your tongue while you give your partner a handjob and vice versa again for more mind-blowing orgasms.
The possibilities are endless.
Anal stimulation can be one of the best sexual pleasures you can experience. In saying that, we’re not telling you to “go do it now!” It’s all strictly up to you. If you don’t want to do it, it’s still okay. We only wish to be your guide to your first pleasurable anal encounter if you’re up for it.