Swinging is quite an old practice but it is still very popular today. A lot of couples enjoy the thrill and excitement of discovering another person’s body or maybe want to test the waters to see if they have any new desires or fetishes. However, if you are just starting out there are a couple of tips you may want to keep in mind!
Make Sure You and Your Partner Are On The Same Page
This means talking about things extensively: be as open as possible, to a fault. This means talking about the types of sex that you’re allowed to have with other people: is it anything goes, or are there certain things that are off-limits? And when you finally do get down to swinging with other people, make sure that these boundaries and restrictions are known and are clear!
Understand the Different Types
Swinging can take a number of different forms. One of the most common and well-known types is “partner swap”, whereby people will literally exchange partners for a night or simply for a single session. There are other types as well where a third may join a couple for some raunchy fun: or two couples will play altogether.
Online Communities Are Your Friend
The Internet has helped a lot of people come out of the woodwork and there are countless online sex and swinger communities out there that can help you come to terms with the whole thing. Make sure to read the advice articles and browse forums. If you have questions, don’t be afraid to pose one either. In addition, they can be incredibly helpful when it comes to finding swinger events and meet ups. Above all, remember: take your time and don’t rush things! Always do what you’re comfortable with doing!