Swinging is mainly seen as a couple’s events: single people are usually welcome however the favor tends to lean more towards single women than it does to men. This is usually because they are more in demand, whereas if single men were as openly invited to swinger parties and clubs, there would be a surplus of men.
Single men can go to swinger’s clubs, however here are a few tips that will ensure your success.
Take Care of Your Body
If you’re going to a swinger club to enjoy the bodies of others, remember that they’ll be enjoying yours, too. This means cleaning yourself up properly: after all, you can’t expect anyone to get down to business with you if they find you unappealing. This doesn’t mean you have to look like Brad Pitt: just make sure you’re well-groomed!
Do Not Be Aggressive in Playrooms
This also ties in with general politeness and etiquette… Remember, swinger parties are also about consent. If anyone refuses to do anything with you or declines your offer, then be polite and simply move on. It happens and can happen for multiple reasons: try not to take it personally. And of course, being aggressive over a rejection will certainly hurt any other chances you may have that evening!
When it comes to protection and contraception, most swinger clubs are going to sell supplies. So it makes sense to ensure that you have everything necessary. And it doesn’t hurt to bring a few from home just in case. Not only is this practical, but it will show others just how responsible you are and may make them want to get involved with you more in the future and at various other events. So keep this in mind when swinging!